The strongest chains are
not those that can be placed around the body,
but those that are wrapped around the mind and heart.
Commentary: AM I
A SEXUAL SINNER?
by Carl A Davenport...but Inspired by God
*****This Commentary is adapted from the sermon by
Carl A Davenport called "Sex, Its All About You" delivered to the
"Urban Nomads" a homeless camp on April 23, 2008, Pensacola, FL
your iniquities have separated between you and your God,and
your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.
But I say
unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath
committed adultery with her already in his heart.
The Spiritual Forces Ministry
exists to make you aware of your bondage to sexual sin and the
separation from God your sexual sin has caused. You may not think
you are separated from God because of your sexual sin, BUT YOU ARE..
At Spiritual Forces Ministry we pray that you might turn to God and
be delivered from your bondage and separation. God is in the
delivering business. He will deliver you only when you repent and
sincerely ask Him. But...before you can ask Him to deliver you from
your bondage and separation, you first have to know what the
bondages of sexual sin are...keep reading you'll know.
There are three rules of bondage that always apply themselves to
RULE NUMBER ONE: THE SIN IS IN YOUR HEART
Sexual sin includes thinking about having any kind of sex
with anyone you are NOT married to. The sin starts here because your
mind always follows your heart. See Matthew 5:27-8. A thought of
sin only comes after the sin enters and is already in your heart.
After the thought nourishes itself, it then becomes physical .
That's the part of the sin you commit by having any type of sex with
anyone you are not married to.
The sex you try to have daily fits this description. Keyword: try.
This shows the heart and thought are there because the physical act
wants to and is trying to take place. If you compare what's
inside your heart and mind, and the sexual behavior that follows
your heart and mind to the definition of sexual sin, you will
see clearly that your entire being is in craving for sexual sin.
Remember, sexual sin is born in the heart, not in the act. The act
is last because it follows your thinking which follows your heart.
Simply because you do not always act on those thoughts does not mean
you are not guilty of sexual sin. If sexual sin is in your heart
your heart has sinned. You will surely be found guilty on judgment
day for just thinking lustfully. It will be just you and God.
RULE NUMBER TWO: BONDAGE IS A SURE THING
Sexual Sin always turns into bondage. It will never fail you. That
is by God's design. (Gal 6:7-9) Be not be deceived, God is not
mocked, whatsoever a man sow, that he shall also reap. And...he will
reap right at the end of the growing season. If you sow wind, you
will reap whirlwind.
The first time you commit sexual sin you feel guilty because you
know God is watching. The second time you feel less guilty. The
third time less, and so on. Each time you feel the pleasure of sex
you think more of the pleasure of sex and less of the guilt. This is
the beginning of the grip of bondage. In time sexual sin becomes the
norm, and you feel as if it were less important of an issue with God
each time. Soon, God doesn't matter, only the pleasure form the
sexual sin does. This is bondage. You will deny you are in bondage
by thinking this is the way I am, or everyone else is like this when
it comes to sex, so it can't be wrong.
RULE NUMBER THREE: YOUR BONDAGE WILL CONTROL YOU
When you are in bondage to sexual sin, it seems like sex is the best
thing you could do. It's the first thing you think of doing, pretty
much all the time. You believe it's great to have sex as often as
you can, even if it is with someone you are not married to.
You feel comfortable about having sex with anyone you want to. Your
lifestyle becomes a just sex, no rings, no strings, not tied down to
anyone lifestyle. Or...sex may have be a vital part of expressing
your feelings in your relationship with someone you are not
married to. Either way, believe it or not, it is sexual sin you are
in bondage to.
Satan is very good at what he does. He's also very simple. All he
ever does is whisper a little thought in your ear telling you to
have sex. He then shows you someone you are lustfully attracted to,
and the rest is up to you. He is so good at deceiving that the
thought of sex outside of marriage being sexual sin never enters
your thought pattern.
Sinning against God never enters your mind. Satan has you so
distracted with your own lust that you completely forgot about God,
or God just didn't matter. That is Satan's plan. To use your own
lusts against you. Satan and his deception has you distracted and
thinking only about satisfying your self-centered sexual needs. If
you follow the thought Satan has planted in your path, or if you
even dwell on it for too long, you will sin sexually and bondage
will get a grasp on you.
When you are in bondage to sexual sin, you believe sex is proper and
its not a sin. Your bondage tells your mind to cleverly work in the
background to rationalize a good reason why having sex with this
person is right. Your mind, if you allow it, will always find many
ways to distort God's truth and deceive you into committing sexual
sin... Any sin for that matter.
Once you have hoodwinked yourself, and have physically had sex with
someone you are not married to, even if it's only an
occasional romp in the hay, it's still sexual sin...and you are
still guilty...Or...if you have sex is with just one or two select
partners who you are not married to, or if you have sex to
commemorate some special occasion, or if you have sex because you
like the person, or because you were high on drugs or alcohol, or if
you have sex just when the time is right, or if you have sex just
because you feel like your body needs relief...No reason is valid
with God. It is sexual sin. You are still guilty.
If you commit sexual sin, you have disobeyed God's law every time
you commit a sexual sin. It is certain that sexual sin will put you
in bondage. Bondage is bondage, and bondage will always be the same,
whether you are rampantly having sex with anyone willing, or just
occasionally, with only one person you are not married to.
Whatever your reason, it does not matter. It's not a reason, its an
excuse for sinning. It is sexual sin and God is putting you on
notification right now as you read this delivery.
WHO IS IN
Porn stars are in bondage to sexual sin. Most of the stars are in
bondage to many other sins also. But...you don't have to be a porn
star to be in the same bondages. All you have to do is commit sin.
Most porn stars are not 'making a living' as they say they
are with the sexual sin they perform on screen. They are supporting
other bondages, such as drugs, alcohol and other vices of their
lifestyle. Porn stars teach sexual sin and lead others who watch
them perform into sexual sin. When you watch them you want to have
sex just like they do. The thoughts of sexual sin fills your
heart...Sin begins in the heart. You heart is full of sin when you
It says nothing in God's word about masturbation, but masturbation
also brings bondage. Some, who are in bondage to masturbation say,
don't knock it, it was my first love. It wasn't their first love, it
was their first sexual sin and their first bondage. And for many
still is. Is that you?
If you are a prostitute working the streets, you are in bondage.
Your bondage has put you where you are. You are deceived because you
don't think its out of line with God. You only deceive yourself more
if you're a prostitute and you claim you're "not that bad" of
a prostitute because you are only prostituting to support yourself.
You deceive yourself even more if you are a single mom and claim to
be just supporting your children. Your bondage is deep, and it has
hoodwinked you. Prostituting yourself is not God's way to support
yourself, or your children, or anything else. It is a tool of the
devil. Satan has deceived you into performing acts of sexual sin
that separates you from God. That's his goal, to separate you from
God. You are losing the spiritual battle one client at a time. You
are in bondage right now because you disobeyed God's sex law when
you started being a prostitute. Bondage is one of the penalties
attached to every sin.
You need to get honest with yourself. You know you are not
prostituting to support yourself or your children. Nor for the
excitement, because there is no excitement. It left with the third
or fourth client. You prostitute to support your other bondages, or
your drug habit. Which came first the chicken or the egg, or the
drugs or the prostitution? We know the bondage always comes last.
If you are a prostitute, and you think you are of "a higher
grade" than the ordinary street prostitute because your clients
are wealthier and you do not have to work the streets, your thoughts
of some "higher grade" deceive only you. You know exactly what your
are. You are a prostitute. A prostitute whose deeds are no different
than the prostitute working the street. You are both sinners and
are in bondage to same kind of sexual sin. But...at least you have
softened your job title and given it a higher class name such as
"call girl" or "escort." Mom won't be as shocked when she finds
out. She'll really be thankful that your a call girl or escort and
not a prostitute or street hooker. The fancy title does make it not
sound as bad. But, in reality, God is not looking at your soft
title. He's looking at your heart. He knows you are still a
prostitute. He won't even add credit for your creativity with names
because your sin with a softer name isn't any 'softer' or less
sinful than the sin of the street prostitute? You deceive only
yourself with your softer title. It doesn't soften the profession.
It only deceives you. You know the truth and it's looking you right
in the eye. Sexual sin is sexual sin no matter how softly you name
it, its still sexual sin in God's eyes.
If you are the "end user" or watcher of pornography, or you
are a client of a prostitute, you are also 'locked in' to sexual
sin. You are the foundation that sexual sin builds upon. Without an
end user or a client, prostitution or porn could not exist.
Therefore you are a support system for sexual sin. Your dollars fund
it. Your participation keeps it alive and growing. You are the one
who fuels the sexual sin machine, greases its gears and keeps it
running smoothly. The entire sexual sin machine would stall if you
did not support it. You are in bondage to sexual sin. Don't think
you're not doing evil. You disobey God's law every time you partake.
The Judgment day is on its way. How will you explain yourself? Will
you tell the Lord you weren't that bad? Will you tell God you only
followed the leader, or will you tell God you lead the followers?
You say you watch porn only once in a while, or 'on an occasion.'
You do not lie. You watch it until you commit sexual sin by
yourself, then you turn it off and go about your other sinful
business. You still broke God's law whether you did it by yourself
or with a hundred others. If you done it once, you have sinned once.
If you done it twice, you have sinned twice. Your first sin lights
the fires of hell for you. The rest just make the fire hotter. If
you claim you only watch porn and satisfy yourself occasionally, and
you don't think you're that bad, think about this. If you are
hanging over a fire by a ten link chain, which link has to break for
you to fall into the fire? Look at it truthfully. You use porn for
the fast self gratification you always seek, and you sometimes urge
members of the opposite sex to watch it with you to steer them into
your sexual sin. It's your heart.
You cruise the streets, back and forth, in the devil's darkest
neighborhoods, looking for a prostitute until you find that 'special
one' and receive your sexual satisfaction from her. When you find
the 'special' prostitute, you have just entered the devil's
ballpark, to receive what feels like heaven for a few seconds.
That's one of the deceptions of Satan. The devil has you gladly
trading that few seconds of sexual pleasure for an eternity of
pleasure with God. The next day your urge for sexual satisfaction
will be back, if not later tonight. So you repeat the process. Every
time you just think about finding a prostitute you have disobeyed
God's law. Its in your heart, not in your act. And...the more you
look for sexual satisfaction in a prostitute, the more satisfaction
escapes you. You never can reach the point of satisfaction you are
searching for. You are always left in a void. This is bondage and
the absence of God in your heart.
Are you having sexual relations outside your marriage? That is
against God's plan for your marriage and he will bring His judgment
upon you when your sin reaches its peak. You know better, but have
defied God's laws by having sexual relations with someone else other
than the marriage partner you swore to God to love, honor and obey,
until death do you part. You have died spiritually the first time
you had sexual relations outside your marriage. God is not behind
your immoral actions, and your immoral actions will cost you an
eternity with God. God is watching you and He has a tear in His
Are you living with someone who is married to someone else? Even if
they say they are with you, God has already spoken and made them
someone else's partner, as He united them some time ago. You have
gotten between a marriage union that God has united, and both of you
are living immorally. God does not approve of adultery and will soon
tire of your sinful relationship. When your sin fully ripens, its
time will be up and God's will release His judgment on both of you,
and your relationship will be destroyed. It is written, "What God
puts together no man shall put asunder."
Was that you who helped a member of the opposite sex get under the
influence of drugs or alcohol so you could have 'your way' with
them? I bet you never did that. If you haven't, then you did not
disobey God's law on this one. We won't need to go there, you're
innocent. Take an honest look at yourself. If you have done this
act, sexual sin has you in bondage so bad that you will go as far as
to drugging someone just to have sex with you. Who do you think is
the originator of this? Your not. You are more than 2000 years
behind the originator of this act. The devil is the originator. He
is also the originator of influencing others to do this. You are his
puppet. It's time to get honest and face how evil you really are
when sexual sin is involved.
WHY DID YOU VISIT THIS PAGE?
THERE ARE FOUR MAIN REASONS WHY MOST PEOPLE VISIT THIS PAGE
Some visit because they were asked to check out the site.
THE 4 MAIN REASONS:
1. CURIOSITY; When it comes to sexual sin, you are curious
because whatever you are curious about in sexual sin directly
relates back to you. If it doesn't, you are not curious about it.
Its that simple. You, who claim to be 'only curious,' know how
guilty you are, but are frantically searching for something that
will convince you that you are not as guilty as you know you are.
You are looking for some kind of documentation to convince you that
you are acting in a normal manner rather than a sinful manner when
it comes to your sex life.
2. TO MOCK; If you are a mocker of sexual sin, you are guilty of
sexual sin. You can only mock sexual sin when you know enough about
sexual sin to mock it. Otherwise none of the sexual sinners you are
mocking to would bother listening to you. They listen to who knows
and ignore who doesn't.
3. FOR SUPPORTING EVIDENCE OF DENIAL; You deny being a sexual
sinner. You call your sexual sin just a normal healthy sexual
appetite. The sex therapists on television say so. You have a
sexual hunger and are ready to have sex with anyone who appeals to
you to overcome that hunger. But...to you, that's not sexual sin,
its fulfilling your desires. Besides everybody's having sex, all
over the world, all the time. So it's ok to have sex if everyone is
doing it. The world approves. You have chosen the worlds approval
over God's. God does NOT approve. You are now believing a false
The reason you believe everyone else is having sex constantly is
because you try to have sex all the time. You know the truth, but
you deny it. You think you can rename your sexual sin to 'active'
sexual appetite' because some television show host's misguided
opinions say so. You know what sexual sin is, and God knows the
truth about you. He knows every sexual sin you have committed. Even
the ones you've overlooked hidden or forgotten about. You can
continue as you are for the rest of your life and live to the
world's standards, but they are not God's standards. God's standards
are the standards. The world's standards are man made. On that great
last day, there will be a consequence for every sexual sin you
committed. They are waiting for you. You will soon be experiencing
You can only deny God's laws for a season. He is calling you, to
repent right now. That is why you are reading this. God put it here
for you to read so you will see how disgusting you really are and
ask Him for forgiveness. He's calling and you better answer. If you
don't, it'll be...Payday...someday...when you will receive your
wages for the sins you've committed. (ROMANS 6:23) Its time to get
on your knees and ask him to save you. Its time you got real.
4. TO SEEK THE TRUTH; You are tired of being the way you are and
don't know how to stop being that way. You are desperate. You know
the truth will set you free, but you don't have it. Well, here it
is: The Truth is admitting to or confessing your sexual sin. That is
the first step. Recovery from the bondage starts here. Admitting it
to God is half your problem. Repentance of the sin is the second
step. That means stop the sexual sin...now! Its not just being
sorry for doing it. Anyone can be sorry, but can YOU stop now?
Accepting Christ as your Lord and Savior is the third step. Only
when you surrender to Him will He remove your from your bondage.
Until you fully accept and humbly live all three of these steps, in
the order given above, you will remain in bondage to all you are in
bondage to right now, and it will get worse.
You have been told what bondage is and you have been given the
first three steps for deliverance. Now its up to you to put them in
play.If you truly want help, the best help you can ask for is God's.
Ask and you shall receive.
Remember, you never see God...But God always sees you...You may
have forgotten God is there, But He is still there...and He's
watching you and everything you do. He wants to deliver you from
your bondage to sexual sin. But you have to let Him. If you don't
let Him save you today, He will condemn you tomorrow.
Father God, I ask that you reach down and touch the hearts of each
of those who have come here in desperation and are looking for help.
I pray you open their hearts that they may receive you, your grace
and your mercy. I ask you lead them to your forgiveness for their
sexual sins, and that you lead their hearts to truthful repentance
so they become cleansed under the blood of Jesus. This I ask in the
name of my Lord and Savior, Jesus. Amen.
Carl A Davenport
Spiritual Forces Ministry